There must be both love and hate inside each man to equal degree; although not that many humans deserve to be loved... These feelings should supplement each other without any trace of conflicts between them. If not; if hate dominates, you’ll start hating yourself, bury your soul and essense giving yourself up to agony of loneliness and desolation, which will appear right after you’re utterly devoted to this feeling, like people calling themselves as «misanthropes» are doing (or think that they’re doing). One cannot escape the association with alike species - it’s the Law. Wolf can be lonely for some time, while solitude gives him strength and thanks to it he becomes stronger than the whole pack, however he can’t be all alone forever. You don’t have to love but you have to associate.
If the so-called «love» prevails, nothing good awaits you I fear - sorrow and pain will take it’s place. Let’s take typical example: man loves certain female individual to distraction, loves her more than himself (one more Law - you CANNOT love anyone more than yourself!!!), but the time passes (love always ends some day - earlier or later but it happens inevitably) and his beloved dies or leaves him for another one... And what happens to this man? Bitterness, despair, misfortune fill his soul..., rarely something else. And then comes the suicide, the greatest baseness humans can perform. Why do victims of «love» and romanticism often commit suicide? Because they appear as Weak people, i.e. wretched, worthless beings who are of no value to this world, and if one does nothing for the world surrounding him, he has no right to live.
Who can tell us of «love» and «happiness»...? Is it possible to carry «love» through our tortured being and cherish «trust» while your best friend betrays you?! I’m not saying that I don’t believe in love, no; but «thanks» to countless hordes of preachers this word turned to mockery on itself. It said: «Love your neighbour». Yes, undoubtedly you have to decrease your ego for love, but you must love only those who really deserve it (and there’re few of them). And individual who forgives everything and everyone, in blindness thinking that his «love» is able to soothe their hate - is cowardly and pathetic Fool, Nonentity who can’t be even scorned due to his pettiness! (If my enemy loves me, I’ll only gain by it; I will avail myself of it but my hate won’t lessen!).
So what’s the way out? - you may ask. Cast away love and hate, at least geared towards men - is the answer. Of course, I realize how hard it is... And if exiling love is possible, you can’t deliver from hate. But what is hate? Perhaps, the feeling which is necessary for us. If man hates anyone, standing higher on the scale of ranks, then exactly hate will give him strength to overcome this resistance, to rise even higher!
So, all the sprouts of love should be demolished (and it’s quite possible), while hate can’t be thrown off - moreover, you don’t have to do it. But here I begin contradicting myself - you’ll say applying to afore-cited words of mine, which say that both love and hate must be inside each of us. Right, but I’m not disowning my own assertions! Who said that love should be directed towards one concrete man - humans have no right to be loved at all, we are too imperfective and fickle... You can love Nature, Beauty and Harmony as such, even if notorious Beauty and Harmony exist only in tremendous music or those parts of Tellus which weren’t polluted by mankind yet...